Comments on: Why is it that most teenage guys are not attracted to overweight girls despite facial beauty or personality?

By: Magdala

Magdala — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:56:59 +0000

The first thing you need to do is feel confident in your on skin. If you do not know your worth, Boys will think that your worthless. Don't be afraid that you wont find someone else that sees your beauty, there are many people out there that sees past your weight
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By: blue_lizzette

blue_lizzette — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:28:59 +0000

I understand where you are coming from. I think it is the fact that people are afraid of what is different. You seem to be different, but yet happy people are afraid of that. What a confident beautiful "not stick figure" I think full figured women have a lot to offer just through thier body because they bring a beautiful sight to humans. I know that sometimes it is hard to accept that but I look at myself and I think that I am beautiful and I look at the magazines and then that is whenI think that I am not so much cause I am not Nicole richie or hillary duff. You don't know how many times I have done diets and or said that if I was skinny then I could be happy. No I have so mnuch to offer. Don't let what others thing affect you or make you feel like you are not worthy. I lost the love of my life cause I was so all over the place with my weight and the insecurity that I felt
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By: ♥♫☺bee yourself☺♫♥

♥♫☺bee yourself☺♫♥ — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 05:52:59 +0000

lol they don’t even like the girls who ARE really skinny and pretty.
one of my best friends at school is in great shape, has flawless skin, and is absolutely beautiful, but guys are not going after her either. it seems that guys like to associate themselves with the "popular" crowd. they seem to be rather shallow, but there are definitely some really great guys. i know myself, that i’m a little thicker, and i definitely have plenty of friends, and some guys have asked me out. i guess their all different : )
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By: hawaiian

hawaiian — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 05:13:59 +0000

well — every one is looking for that perfect "one"—– it is life —- at the age of 16 – dont wory about it — your not trying to get maried —-

but dating is still a fun hassle—- your boyfriend must be a good guy —- be nice to him and well it will all work out!!
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By: cardgirl2

cardgirl2 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 04:32:59 +0000

You know dear, unfortunately that is the way it is..Guys can be very cruel. If I were you I would keep in shape physically, exercise, and eat well, and if you lose a few pounds then O.K. If not, you have alot of confidence in yourself and you will go far in your life. Showing confidence really gives off good vibes and you shouldn't let the small minds of teenage guys bother you. They are too immature to understand that a thin girl could be the biggest bore in the world. They have to find out themselves. That is part of maturing and growing up.
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By: Fran

Fran — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:47:59 +0000

Some guys like girls who are confident and in control of their lives and they perceive being overweight as a sign of not being able to take control of eating habits or one's self or something like that...
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By: Nise

Nise — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:01:59 +0000

What does it matter to you what other guys think? I mean you HAVE a boyfriend, and you shouldnt be worrying about other guys view on your physical attractiveness. Your boyfriend is obviously with you for a reason so dont trip
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By: milli w

milli w — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:40:59 +0000

you have a boyfriend... of corse guys arnt going to be interesed in you.. why would they bother if you have a boyfriend??
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By: layna012

layna012 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:24:59 +0000

well im a thick girl and at school a lot a boys try to holla at me but i just turn them down! its not about you personality or beauty , its about getting to no that boy , or having things in common.
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By: swymmer2004

swymmer2004 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 02:18:59 +0000

Lots of teenage boys are shallow. But there are some good ones. Just might take a bit to find them
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By: <3

<3 — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:44:59 +0000

if you have a boyfriend then WHY DO YOU CARE??
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