Intellect, Facial Beauty, or body. Which would you prefer to be complemented on first?

I would prefer to be complemented on either my intellect (though most say i’m a ditz, but whatever) or facial beauty first, I really prefer my body not to be mentioned during my first encounter with someone, but if so definitely last. I absolutely hate it when a guy approaches me and the second thing out his mouth after "give me yo digits" is, "yo body is bangin" (maybe not like that, but you know what I mean) thats an automatic rejection. So which would you prefer?

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Intellect, facial beauty, or body

Boredom inspired this question.
Zaire, I like the way you think. The next guy that steps to me with that mess i’ll smash his freakin balls in.
dog lover – I wish that rule applied in america. I don’t mind being complemented on my body, just not on the first encounter.

If a guy compliments me on my body then I will compliment him with a kick in the balls…preferably with a stiletto heal that would sink into his flesh.

No I hate that too!!!! I once saw this guy checking me out from the back and I felt so insulted I gave him the most ugliest look…no actually I ran out of the store crying but I wish I could have gave him an ugly look =(

I only want my husband checking out my body…he can check it out all day…night…on the phone…on camera…dvd…

But if its not my husband and some strange man then he needs to run far far away…

Id rather be complimented on my beauty before intellect…its great if a guy thinks im smart but if he has no desire/attraction for me then it would never work and then I would move on…attraction is what makes a person want to get to know you.

Lol, good question Spirit…most men have it backwards…they dont even realize we HATE that mess.

6 Responses to “Intellect, Facial Beauty, or body. Which would you prefer to be complemented on first?”

  1. amanda Says:

    beauty. i know my own intelligence. i want to feel desirable.
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  2. Whitney O Says:

    Facial Beauty 1
    Intellect 2
    Body 3

    But in reality it usually goes Body 1
    Facial beauty 2
    and Intellect 3

    SIGH
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  3. Zaire Says:

    If a guy compliments me on my body then I will compliment him with a kick in the balls…preferably with a stiletto heal that would sink into his flesh.

    No I hate that too!!!! I once saw this guy checking me out from the back and I felt so insulted I gave him the most ugliest look…no actually I ran out of the store crying but I wish I could have gave him an ugly look =(

    I only want my husband checking out my body…he can check it out all day…night…on the phone…on camera…dvd…

    But if its not my husband and some strange man then he needs to run far far away…

    Id rather be complimented on my beauty before intellect…its great if a guy thinks im smart but if he has no desire/attraction for me then it would never work and then I would move on…attraction is what makes a person want to get to know you.

    Lol, good question Spirit…most men have it backwards…they dont even realize we HATE that mess.
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  4. ♥▓▒♥ஜ● sugarii baby-bee ஜ♥♥▒░ Says:

    i agree w/ zaire
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  5. dog lover Says:

    In our Chinese culture, a man should not talk about a woman’s body in front of a woman, it is an insult to a woman.

    Therefore, I would just prefer intellect and facial beauty only.
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  6. Ms Tee Says:

    Intellect of course
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